Dealing with negativity in life is virtually unavoidable.

Everyone encounters negative situations, whether at home, work, in the community, or at school.

A negative situation may arise in your personal life such as not being able to get a job or in your professional life such as not being able to get promotions, or up your product sales.

It is how we personally handle these situations that define the results we get in our lives.

Read along to know how Real People handle Negativity.


It’s easy to be very optimistic and expect to have positive situations every day in your life, business, career e.t.c, but if you’ve been here for a while you will know that life is filled with both positive and negative situations.

You could live life trying to ignore that there are negative situations, but even if you choose to ignore the negative it will still exist and affect you if you don’t learn how to handle it.

Real People know that negativity is part of life, it is normal for situations to turn against them, they don’t expect negativity but they know life is part negative which makes them not to be surprised when they see one and this gives them a better chance to succeed and be Real.

So don’t be startled when next you see negativity in life, just use the law of opposites to your advantage.


Real People know their opposite which is Fake People.

Apart from knowing that negativity is part of life they also know in life we have opposite always in conflict, that is Real People Vs Fake People, Light Vs Darkness, Wealth Vs Poverty, Positive Vs Negative, and they use this knowledge to their advantage by always looking at the positive side of life when they are in a negative situation.

When you’re so LOW in life the only option is to go UP which is the opposite direction.

Similarly when Real People are in a positive situation they try their best to make the most of it because they know it won’t last forever, and they avoid going the opposite direction.

Likewise when you are in a negative situation focus and work towards the positive opposite, and when in a positive situation make the most of it by avoiding the negative opposite.


Epictetus said “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”

When something happens, the only thing in your power is your attitude toward it; you can either accept it or resent it.

Real People know their lives are the result of the choices/decisions they have made so far in life.

Real People don’t blame others for their success/failures in their life; they take full responsibility for their actions. They always use the power of choices to overcome negativity by making the right choice to turn negativity to positivity.

The power of choice is what makes us human. Use this power wisely.

“I am responsible. Although I may not be able to prevent the worst from happening, I am responsible for my attitude toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life. Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have – life itself.” – Walter Anderson.

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