Nigerian superstar David Adeleke, popularly known as Davido, is no stranger to loss. Over the years, the singer has endured a series of heart-wrenching tragedies, losing loved ones in ways that would test anyone’s strength. Yet, Davido continues to rise, creating hit after hit, spreading joy to millions with his music. In a recent interview with Mystery Fashionist in New York, the Afrobeats icon shed light on how he has managed to cope with these losses and the role his faith has played in his journey.
Losses That Shaped Him
Davido’s journey with grief started early. At just 11 years old, he lost his mother, Mrs. Victoria Imade Adeleke, an event that left an indelible mark on his life. But the pain didn’t stop there. In recent years, the singer has faced the devastating loss of his 3-year-old son, Ifeanyi Adeleke, as well as close friends and associates, including Tagbo, DJ Olu, Obama DMW, and his personal photographer, Fortune.
For many, such continuous heartbreak would be unbearable. But Davido shared that his faith has been the anchor that has kept him strong through these difficult times.
“I have lost a lot of people. I lost my mum at the age of eleven. I’m just being strong. I did a song called ‘Stand Strong.’ I feel like strength and obviously, my faith has kept me going,” he revealed.
The Power of Faith and Music
The singer’s words highlight the dual power of faith and music as his coping mechanisms. His song Stand Strong not only reflects his inner resilience but also serves as a tribute to the many challenges he has faced. Through his music, Davido expresses emotions that are often too heavy to bear alone. The track, like much of his work, has resonated deeply with fans who admire his ability to turn personal pain into a message of hope.
Davido’s faith has also played a crucial role in shaping his outlook. In times of unimaginable loss, his belief in a higher power has kept him grounded and given him the strength to continue living and creating.
Addressing Misconceptions
Beyond his handling of grief, Davido also took the opportunity to address a few misconceptions about his personality during the interview. One misconception, he noted, is the perception that he is unapproachable.
“I think sometimes, people think I am not approachable. Another misconception is that people also think I am too accessible,” he shared.
He went on to explain that growing up in a large family meant that he was always surrounded by people, which has shaped how he interacts with others. “I grew up in a big family. I’m used to having people around me. My talent and success are God-given,” he added.
Rising Above
Davido’s ability to handle loss with grace, while continuing to give so much of himself to his fans and loved ones, speaks volumes about his resilience. The tragedies he has experienced could have easily broken him, but instead, they have shaped him into a stronger person, both in his personal life and his career.
For fans, Davido’s transparency about his grief and the strength he draws from his faith is not only inspiring but a reminder that even in the darkest moments, hope and resilience can prevail.
As he continues to navigate his personal journey, his story serves as a powerful example of finding strength in faith and the healing power of music.